Reader Question: An Act Of Betrayal or No Biggie?

So girls we all do, no matter what our intentions, at some point we are going to snoop through our gentlemen friends phone. The question is what do you do if you find that Mr. Darn Near Perfect has been flirting it up with another “lady” via text land? Is this a forgivable act? Should you call it quits now? Do you confront him or simply act like you saw nothing? We want to know, what do you think?